Writing about what hurts

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Trauma in Storytelling

Stories are for joining the past to the future… Stories are for those late hours in the night when you can't remember how you got from where you were to where you are. Tim O'Brien

Have you ever read a book that resonated with you on a deep, profound level?

Weaving trauma into storytelling can be a source of healing for both writers and readers, and help us navigate through emotional pain.

For me, writing fiction has become more than a creative outlet. It started with Micka in the 1/2986 series. I found it pretty scary to sprinkle my own experiences into a novel that would be read by complete strangers. Even more unnerving was the thought someone I knew might read and recognise the personal crumbs.

Was it painful to write? Definitely. So much so that I kept avoiding it.

But I realised that storytelling is a sanctuary where I can explore painful memories that still haunt me, and dissect trauma without fear of judgment or doubt from others. I have no idea why it took me a full decade to figure it out. But yes, I'll be doing more of this in the future.

Books offer safe havens for both, writers and readers, where trauma and its echoes can be examined from different angles.

An author might decide to tell the story from the perspective of someone experiencing hardship, or from that of an onlooker witnessing events unfold from a distance. The writer might even step into the shoes of the person inflicting pain. Each perspective offers unique insights. None of this needs to be published — or all of it must. It's your choice.

That's the beauty of storytelling: Your story is yours alone. You shape it as you will. You decide how close to the pain you want to go, and whether your characters find healing, transformation, or simply reflect reality as it is or once was.

Write hard and clear about what hurts. Ernest Hemingway

You don't need to be a writer to find solace in storytelling. Perhaps you've stumbled across a book that was therapeutic, even cathartic. Maybe you keep a journal where a character navigates challenges similar to your own.

I'd love to hear about the books that touched your soul. Please share them in the comments!

If you are a writer, thinking about starting to write, or keeping a journal: I'm hosting weekly writing jams on my Patreon, and I'd like to focus our upcoming sessions on trauma and storytelling. Join us!

There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. Maya Angelou

Am I slaying it? LOL nope.

I'm on the final stretch to finishing Peregrine, the third book in the Keeper of Pleas series, and I realised I might need to clarify what this looks like.

You probably think I'm going full blast like this:

How peeps think I edit
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But nope. The truth looks a bit more...apocalyptic.

If you'd love to read my newest books as I write them (yup, loooong before the official release date), find me on my Patreon.

One of the many things I enjoy when writing in the Victorian era is the gutter-speak swear words. Sadly, I can't use them all in my books, so here are some extras, just for you.

Clabber-headed Ninnyhammers
Rose petals

Artsy side projects

Gilded Bookmarks

I started playing around with embossing and gilding letters and bookmarks.

Prototypes of gilded bookmarks are now on the way to my long-time Patreon patrons as a small thank-you for their support.

Here's a sneak peek of the first version (a first draft of a scene for Peregrine, with gilded letters and edges) and the second version (character and cover art with gilded letters).

I'm designing a set for Peregrine right now, featuring the whole cast. They'll become available in my shop in November. If you'd like your own, let me know in the comments!

Let's do the free ebook thing again, shall we?

Months ago, I regularly posted free ebook collections for you, and then...I kinda lost track and stopped.

But now with the weather turning shitty, we all need more books, right?
Wait... When don't we need more books? Please advise.

Anyway. Click on the image to find your free October mystery collection.

Free mystery books October
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